December 29, 2015

That was the day Joe D. asked me to come aboard MMO to write for the site. While we had talked on Twitter DMs, that was the moment where our friendship began.

It wasn’t until I received the news yesterday that he died that I realized we knew each other for seven years. That’s only part of the reason the news hit me so hard.

There were things which brought us together. Obviously, there was a love of the New York Mets. By extension, there was frustration over the Wilpons, but mostly, it was just the unfair treatment Mets fans receive.

It’s one of the reasons he started blogging. He was one of the first. He started raising money for MetsBlog, and then went out on his own. If MMO isn’t the longest running Mets blog, it’s one of the longest. The same goes for MMN when it comes to minor league coverage. That’s real passion for the Mets.

You see, Joe just didn’t love the Mets. He loved the Mets fan. It’s why he valued the independence of MMO. By doing that, he could tell the truth as fans saw it without the obstacles many sites had.

To this day, I was astonished he read my site. In the beginning, he might’ve been the only one. I always valued his feedback, and he did teach me how to blog much better.

Shorter paragraphs. Baseball Reference Player Linker. Better and more succinct titles. On the last, no one came up with better titles for articles than Joe D.

The only thing Joe did better than titles was fight. That was emblematic of his naval service.

He truly fought for his writers. He fought for the truth. He was sick for as long as I knew him, and he battled harder than anyone.

He battled me from time-to-time. It was good natured, and it was about Mets stuff. One funny antidote was after the Mets had designated Travis d’Arnaud for assignment, he said the only good thing about it was he wouldn’t hear from me anymore about his pitch framing or on how underrated d’Arnaud was.

Through it all, what I did value most was his honesty and loyalty. In respect for him then and now, I won’t speak of the circumstances surrounding my time away from MMO, but it should be said we stayed in touch throughout, and as soon as certain circumstances changed, I was very happy to return (even if a certain player wasn’t).

In all honesty, I always took it for granted Joe D was there. I was always awaiting the compliment from an article on MMO, MMN, or my site. When I heard from him, I knew I really wrote something good.

My hope is that this article would’ve been one of those times. Sadly, I’ll never know because my friend is gone.

RIP Joe D.